Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Will he come back Tarot spread (Updated)

Original spread here;

It should have been "Should he come back?" spread because it gives us so much insight into situation. I have already done this spread once and now I need to do it again.

Will he come back tarot spread
The First card tells motivation why you want this person back;

King of Swords:
I usually look at court cards as people instead of as feelings or situations. The King of Swords can be the "he" in question. The reason for wanting him back is because either the querent is fancied by his intellect and his gift of gab or the querent wants things to be fair and just. The attribute of fair and just comes from this man's sword he is holding.

 The querent said she wants him back because there have been some misunderstandings and she wants to clarify those and then peacefully decide whether to move on but she believes she deserves a chance to be understood.


Past is Cards 2 & 3:
Three of Wands and Ten of Pentacles

The Three of Wands is about dreaming big, looking at bigger picture and planning how to make your dreams come true. The Ten of Pentacles is the card of ultimate material success and financial abundance. Being number 10 in the suits of Pentacles, its the achievement of dreams, financially well-off period, success and basically a great card. Together it looks like they had a long-term planning to grow old together or live happily-ever-after. The Ten of Pentacles in past position also indicates that the foundation of the matter is material comfort.

The querent updated that financial problems lead to the current situation. They had a plan for having family and having a life-time together but somehow things did not pan out the way they should have.

The Action/Handle of the door:
This card number 4 tells what needs to be done to bring him back:
Temperance:
This card means, patience, trying to find balance, healing, finding middle ground in an argument, and above all, mixing different actions to find the right thing. The Temperance is also a card which requires calm and patience so I believe no fast action will do that. She needs to find the right amount of push and pull to bring this guy back. First of all, step back, break contact, find inner-peace, find inner-strength, heal yourself, and also make sure you look at both sides of the story. If you find him pushing you away there is a reason probably. Try to be patient, very calm.

The Challenge:
Three of Swords;
ohh not good. This looks like what has separated you two is hurting each other's feelings and now both feel sad and heartbroken and this is the main challenge. Its funny that heartbreak and sorrow is the lock and the action is healing and finding peace. This card does not only show the pain you are feeling, but also the pain you are inflicting upon others. With Temperance, it means you have to heal what you have inflicted upon both you and him.

Outside influences on situation:
The World:
The outer influences on the situation look welcoming. There has been a project which reached its end successfully. It also shows that both people are busy right now with their work or their lives. But its a good card and the outside influences are not negatively effecting the situation.

What lies on the other side:
Knight of Wands, Death & Nine of Cups
The Knights are usually messengers. This knight brings sudden solutions. This knight is fast and adventurous. He can also be a man coming in your time, can be the ex-man too. The Death card represents something coming to an end and The Nine of Cups is the ultimately wish card which fulfils your wishes.
Them three together say that there is a man coming up, or a new adventure coming up which will quickly end a chapter in querent's life and whatever querent's been wishing for, she will have better than that.

The Key:
Tower:
This card basically talks about bringing it all down and then starting fresh. This card typically says, change the situation and change it drastically. Even if it means breaking ties and then re-building them, do that.

Overall, it looks like things were great with them, and now she misses him. She can be patient and should focus on self-healing because the main challenge that lies between them is the pain and sorrow. The outside influences are also supporting her. In future there can be a quick ending to what she has been wishing for but she will get far better than what she wanted. She might have to rebuild the relationship from zero.

There are 2 swords, 2 wands, 1 cups and 1 Pentacles card. Four cards are major cards which indicate most of the things are out of her control.

I welcome opinions and suggestions on this spread and its interpretation. 


Update: Well the client has exactly incorporated the techniques which are elaborated by the Temperance card and they are back in touch. It has come to surface that the real reason why he was trying to get away because some of the things she said hurt him bad (Three of Swords in challenge position) because of which he was shutting her out. Things are not normal, the way they interact has changed (Death) but she is determined and happy. It looks like she will just about make it. (Nine of Cups).

6 comments:

  1. Hi just used this spread but stuck on the meaning so far as I'm still learning.
    1. Four of wands
    2. Judgement
    3. Seven of pentacles
    4. Nine of Cups
    5. Aces of wands
    6. The Magician
    7. Eight of pentacles
    8. Knight of swords.
    9. Ten Of pentacles
    10. The lovers

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    1. Hi

      why you want him back: you seek happiness, pure joy or may be your are lacking fun in your life. you want possibly marriage or a long-term committed relationship with this person

      Past:
      There has been a change of events. one of you is very delusional and also full of unreal expectations while other one keeps judging it.

      How to Bring him back
      Nine of Cups. this card here tells me be happy with yourself first. enjoy all good and be upbeat. live the life of your dreams. pursue your goals.This card focuses more on you than him/her

      Obstacle: avoid being over agressive & asking for too much. you might come on as too strong a person.

      Outside Influence: there is someone manipulating this situation. this person is good with con, and creating illusions of unreal

      what lies on other side:
      be patient. cultivate those qualities in you which can help you nurture yourself, be self-assertive & take things head on. there is all happiness for you on other side,

      Passion is the essence of life. greater sexual chemistry can help.

      I think its a Green signal for you. Try to get your person back & there are good things waiting for you on other side.

      Good luck

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  2. Hello, I'm kind of confused with my reading. Especially with the challenge and key.
    1.
    2.Page of Swords
    3. The empress
    4.five of cups
    5.two of cups
    6.six of wands reversed
    7.Wheel of fortune
    8. The hanged man reversed
    9.Knight of swords reversed
    10. Three of cups

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    1. Hi

      I don't read reversals so pardon me if I'm off

      you didn't write why you want him back (1.)

      In past I see good communication & learning about each other, good support and comfort around each others. YOu might really be more good friends than lovers

      How to bring him back: You are looking too much to the past. Look whats gone is gone but you need to look forward and not backwards. There is still some negativity and resentment. let go of that first

      Challenge: The spark. you have to meet him and create that attraction again which usually brings us closer in first place. This card is also about balance of masculine and feminine energy. balance yourself, balance your life. With 5 of cups and 2 of cups in these positions, i can say that you need to work on your emotional energy. only then you can bring him back to you

      outside influence on situation says there is blockage right now. circumstances are not in your favor right now

      WOF is always a new chapter and HM reversed means time to shoot forward. do not just hang in there and wait for things to happen, make them happen, however look for suppressed anger and suppressed energy ok.

      I think, try to be his friend. the fun, we can we weird around each other and we can relate again kind of friends. do not force love. that will come later.

      Good luck :))

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  3. Hello, Can you please interpret this for me? I really need this :/

    1.King of cups
    2. X wheel of fortune
    3. The Empress
    4. IV of Swords inverted
    5. VI The lovers
    6. III of Cups
    7. III of Wands inverted
    8. Justice
    9.X of Pentacles inverted
    10. II of Pentacles

    Thanks :)

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    1. Hi

      I don't read reversals so Im not sure my interep for them is correct

      you want him because he reminds you of your father? he is compassionate and sensitive. an ideal man really!

      Past is interesting turn of events, love, affection, support and lots of love. lucky love we may say

      to bring him back you have to take action. this card tells you to step up, snap out of your comfort zone and start working on your plans. it may also suggest that you need more assertion than you already have put.

      Challenge is the Lovers card which is sometimes related to choices. do you want him back? for who he is or for how he makes you feel? are you sure its not just physical? think again

      There are friends who can help you in this.

      You have two inverted cards on other side. means if you do approach him again, there you are limiting your options, you might even not be as happy as you think you'd be once you have him again.

      Key is to find a balance. between work and pleasure. try to distract yoruself. think and re-think about your decision. The cards dont look too good for a reconciliation.

      Greetings

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