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Hi, can you help me interpreting my 'will he come back spread' please. 1- two cups reversed 2,3-high priestess reversed and nine of wands 4-the lovers reversed 5-seven of swords 6-queen of pentacles reversed 7-queen of cups 8-king of swords reversed 9-ace of cups And the key: wheel of fortune Help, pretty please

This is the question I got & I just want you to know that I do not use reversals. Its been one year but I'm not comfortable with reversals yet, but I will try to come up with an interpretation.

Here is the spread.

1. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go.

Two of Cups Reversed;

You have issues with accepting love, letting it happen, & opening yourself to love. This person in question can be a reason for this blockage & this is why you want them back, because you believe they will help you open yourself to love again. This card also indicates lack of commitment Make sure you do not have commitment phobia & that is why you want this person just because they are not commitment oriented & that feels safer in a way. May be he is just not available enough & you just want him to satisfy your ego. Not a very good reason to want them back if they are emotionally not available to you.

2. & 3. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card.

High Priestess Reversed & Nine of Wands

The High Priestess reversed tells that you have failed to listen to your heart and trust your gut in this relationship before & this has been happening because of you being too defensive about your feelings. It might be because you suffered a bad relationship/break up before this guy & you were just not willing to open yourself up to love & romance after that. You were just not listening to your heart. You needed to trust your gut & face your fears head on. I believe this explain why you want him back now, mainly because the feelings you had for him, you were not able to let them out or express yourself the first time around (Two of Cups Reversed).

4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do, you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off.

The Lovers Reversed

Again a fear of commitment or a fear of going the next step. It just indicates that you need to shift the path of your relationship by expressing your true feelings. A struggling relationship does not mean it has to end. You just need to find the willingness to express your personal truth and make the best decision for yourself and your relationship. Just make sure you know that you want this person for the right reasons.

5. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover.

Seven of Swords

STOP running away from your fears. This card can also be a warning that this person in question is not telling you all truth. There is always a hint of deception and trickery with this card.This is the obstacle, you have to be true to yourself first, & then you will be able to see it in other people too.

6. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – No need to elaborate.

Queen of Pentacles reversed

I believe there is a hidden desire in you to express your sensitivity & this is leading to this situation. The Queen can also be another woman involved in this situation, making you want him bad, someone who is not affecting you directly, but rather indirectly, a friend with successful relationship, someone who is successfully happy in a romantic relationship & it makes you realize you need to finish your business with your ex.

7. 8. & 9. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through, you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with.

Queen of Cups - King of Swords Reversed & Ace of Cups

If you try to push the door open, it will serve you good. It will give you an ability to realize your own needs & get in touch with your own sensitivity. He might be a bit off, or things might not go well, but ending with Ace of Cups, I think things will be great & both of you will experience a great deeper emotional connection again.

10. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle, then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door.

This card is all about cycles of relationships, changes & BIG changes you can expect. The only thing you can count on is that nothing is permanent. Things will soon change & these changes will be out of your hand. I think you just need to have some faith. The cycle of slowness in your romantic life is coming to an end. You have little control in the matter. on other hand, It’s important to note that the Wheel of Fortune Tarot card reminds us that there are ups and downs to every relationship. With its appearance in a love Tarot reading, there may be a need to take stock in your relationship. This is the time to ask yourself if your partner is worth the commitment. After all, every relationship will have its highs and lows. The true question you need to ask yourself is if you value your partner and relationship enough to work through the difficult times.

Hope it made some sense at all.

Blessings & light.

Quick One card reading

Q: What should S do in order to make J desire her?

A: Six of Cups

Six of Cups Radiant Rider Waite Deck

The most interesting bit is that S & J were high school lovers, who have come across each other after 8 years now. They have felt an instant attraction towards each other & this time the connection is different than before.

1. Looking at the picture,we can see the feeling of love, genorosity & affection oozing. There are two kids in the picture & the card somehow reminds me of the Two of Cups, only with children this time. So forming a child-like affection attitude, generous & pure, will help her make him desire her.
2. Child-like purity will make him feel nostalgic, like old times, & this nostalgia will remind him of his feelings for her
3. Children are pure, optimistic & fun. These qualities will attract him towards her.
4. Reminding him of old things, talking about his childhood stuff, may be even discussing kids will help her.
5. This one card reading has helped me discover a lot about the priorities this guy has *grin* and one card, sometimes is more than enough.

Quick Love Spread

Original Spread & author found here:

Q: His thoughts & situation regarding his relationship with me?

Him at Present:

Two of Cups:

the Two of Cups can indicate a balanced and harmonious relationship. It usually points towards a relationship that has mutual respect, attraction and romantic inclinations. I like this card appearing here because it means he is perceiving our relationship exactly the way I am. Peaceful, harmonious & smooth.


Challenge: What stops him from moving forward:
Temperance:
The card of patience, cooperation, balance and moderation. He is a slow & steady wins the race kind of guy & it explains his approach well. He believes in "time figures everything out for us" kind of approach & this is what is stopping him from moving forward. I also believe he is healing from a past relationship possibly which is why he has to stop & think before moving forward with me.


Issues from past influencing present:

Eight of Pentacles:
This card simply confirms that our business with each other was not really finished when he made a re-appearance in my life. He still had lessons to learn with me (& vice versa) & that is exactly why, I believe, we have come together again, to Two of Cups.


Future/outcome/Potential:
The Moon
He may be having conflicting feelings, I would love to have him face them *evil laugh*. This is my card for "facing the fears" & I can very well see what his worst fears are in relation to me & he will be facing them soon.

Relationship happiness Spread by Lisa

original spread & author's blog here

1)What you and your partner are thinking about each other Ace of wands & Seven of wands

I think about him as a new adventure, this is true because when I sent him my first message I actually was looking to rekindle the old spark. He,to me, is my new beginning and that too a fiery one.

Him on other hand, thinks of me as someone courageous and he actually told me the same too. I actually went ahead & confronted him to solve the tension between us so he is kind of impressed with my directness.

2)What you and your partner are saying to each other (how you communicate)
 Two of wands & Death

I basically tell him all the time to have fun with life, keep a balance (number two) & analyse if whatever he is working hard for is worth it.
He on the other hand tells me his stories of why he is the way he is. He is a Capricorn & a workaholic. For him life is serious business & he is miserable sometimes. That is why these two cards explain it very well.

Alternatively, I weigh my words, I evaluate my words before I tell him anything & he is trying to transform the way he has been & is now communicating with me.

3) What you and your partner are doing to each other (how you treat each other)
Knight of Wands & Lovers
I treat him with passion, adventure & fiery nature, because I'm an Aries. He treats me like someone he can share things with.

4)Advice on how to create more harmony between what you think, say and do.
 Four of Cups & Page of Cups

These cards tell me , being Cups, that we need to work on our sensitivity & emotions, since both of us are Aries & Capricorn respectively, emotions are not really our thing.
I have to be more self-absorbed & I need to see whats around. For me this card is about "help will come" so I have to be more considerate of what I have instead of what I want to have. About him he has to learn about his emotional & sensitive side.

5)Current happiness potential
Ten of Pentacles
This card is all about happiness, completeness, family, riches, health, wealth & a stage where things are all set in order to start a new cycle. We have a potential to reach our true happiness & complete this cycle if we both pay attention to our emotional needs.

Tarotscope for October2012

Last month's successful tarotscope encourages me to have another go!

Love & Romance:

Ending & new beginning + Growth & abundance

Last month I had Ten of Swords with Seven of Cups & that was true. This month I expect I will move on from my day dreaming of last month towards more stable growth & also abundance. Empress is the card I just pulled for what was coming up next in my life. Empress is also a motherly influence in your life and in terms of romance it means growth, increase, abundance. Good sign for October



Home & Family:

Being Considerate + Family Happiness

This card tells me that after some time of factoring others into equation, I will see some family happiness & quality time at home. I'm very much looking forward to this. Ten of Cups in this position is great.

Work & Finances:


Mystery + Rest = Calm down

This clearly tells me there is still much time for me to stand back & relax before I can actually find some work. Its taking longer than I thought.

Generally: I see good times at home & in terms of romance a spiritual growth (no man in cards) so peace out!

Sleeping Beauty Relationship Spread

Since I have been dating but it leads to nowhere, it gets me thinking what is going so wrong and where the hell is "he" who is meant to be mine forever & with whom things will be all magical? I have been trying to take advice from tarot & my spirit guides for opening myself to love but its just not happening.

I decided to ask the cards once again using the Sleeping Beauty Relationship Spread designed by ArwenNightstar  here:

Sleeping Beauty: A Relationship Spread

1. Why are you asleep to a new relationship?

Four of Cups
2. What is keeping you asleep to potential romance?
The High Priestess
3. What do you need to know about your dreams of romance?
Three of Cups
4. What or who will awaken you to romance?
The Sun
5. What will they need from you for romance to work?
Ace of Swords
6. What will you need from them for romance to work?
Death
7. What will be the final outcome?
The Moon

The first two cards show that basically its introspection & inaction which is keeping me still. It is true because for last four months I have not been socialising much, except for two weeks in Aug-Sep when I was busy with family holiday. Apart from that I am not putting myself out there which is reinforced in the Third card, what I need to know. I have to be out there if I want love to come & find me. The Sun further clarifies that a sense of freedom, putting an end to staleness & instead having fun will bring romance in my life. I need to take control & look through the clouds & veil of mystery in the High Priestess card to see where I have to be. I will need to put an end to a cycle, a call for ending whatever I have been going through, & finally face my fears. The Moon card as the outcome card shows that I have to face my fears this way. I will be bewildered & finding myself overwhelmed but its important. This is the feeling you get when you wake up from dreams like Three of Cups.

Autumn Equinox Spread from Tarot Thrones blog

Autumn is officially here & I saw this simple yet effective spread here & decided to try it out for myself:

Card 1: This is where I am unbalanced and SHORT/DEFICIENT

The Ace of wand is the sheer will power & a creative idea that all of sudden hits you like a bolt. 

This card tells me that I'm currently lacking my drive, my will power & an idea that will immediately take me out on a new adventure. The aces are the beginning of something & they tell me that I need to take charge, be in control & have the courage to take things head on. I'm an Aries Sun & Mercury so it totally means being in my own shoes, which I usually am, but these days I lack direction, This card tells me to take the risk, fall for it & fall hard. Its really ironic though, taking out Ace of Wands with the green leaves beginning to bud out, while we entered Autumn.

Card 2: This is where I am unbalanced and OVER-ENDOWED

This is my card of running away or escapism. This card tells me that I am trying to run away from something I should instead deal with. This card is also a card of deception. I should stop myself from running from the issues and instead make sure I know what I'm doing & what issues I have & deal with them.

Card 3: This Court brings me back into balance:

So I lack Ace of Wand & I am escaping my issues, this brings me to Knight of Wands which is also Aries in my books. So all I need to do is be myself. Sun is currently in Libra, right opposite to my sign & I should be taking the matter heads on instead of escaping them.

This Knight in my books is very adventurous. In this picture we can see he is all set & probably with full force, ready to go out on an adventure. I think I should have some more fun, be courageous, knowing that I can have what I want.

This spread has summed the situation very well for me. I think its telling me that I need to be back in my usual form, my usual Aries energy, even though the Autumn is here, I can still have my Spring on the go...

About him!

Recent Pluto retrograde transits brought some people from past, some people I was obsessed with, back into my life. I felt my intuition quite high today so I asked a few questions about a particular person:

1. Does he has feelings for me:

10 of Wands & Queen of Pentacles

Ten of Wands is my No card because there is too much going on in that person's mind. He is actually a very responsible kind of man & he has lots of responsibilities. This combination shows that he has responsibilities or burdens towards her family, mother in particular. Its like he has to work for bringing food on the table. No room for romance in this man's life apparently.

2. Will there be a long term relationship with this man:

The Lovers & Two of Cups

I have pulled these cards again for this man. I last time pulled these cards for what he wants. It looks like there is a reconciliation in store for us, & we will meet again, this time as lovers.

3. What stops him from approaching me:
Ten of Pentacles & Eight of Cups

The man in the Eight of Cups is leaving the beautiful scenery of Ten of Pentacles behind. It looks like he has had some financial security, a happy family time but now he is leaving on another quest which is why he is not contacting me. I'm not sure if he has recently started a new job or anything but I believe he is looking for something & when he has found it, he will return to me.

My Tarot Yes/No list

Most of times we are looking for a Yes/No answer, Period. Whether they are a good form or question or not, that is not the concern when you are so desperate to know where you stand, black or white, no greys.

Tarot is always more accurate when you have your own associations with it. You can not & should not use a random search on Google for keywords or yes/no answers for a card you pulled. You should have your own meanings, keywords, time frames, Yes/No attribute associated with each card so that your subconscious may register which card means what to you.

Here is my list of tarot Yes/No (may be) cards:

The Major Arcana:

0	The Fool - Yes, a new beginning
1	The Magician - Yes but you have to use your creative skills for that
2	The High Priestess- No, not known yet, a mystery. Its not a complete no, just not yet!
3	The Empress- Yes, with growth & increase
4	The Emperor - Yes but you have to take control
5	The Hierophant - Yes but stick to the tried & tested methods.
6	The Lovers- Yes
7	The Chariot - You have a choice, indecision. Situation can go either way
8	Strength - Yes you have the strength to make it happen
9	The Hermit - No. some questions need to be answered first
10	Wheel of Fortune - Its out of your hands, don't push your limits.
11	Justice - What goes around comes around. Outcome depends on your action. May be
12	The Hanged Man - No, not yet
13	Death- No, never. Let it go.
14	Temperance- Yes but not too soon.Have patience
15	The Devil - No, detach yourself from this situation immediately.
16	The Tower - No, let it go.
17	The Star- Yes
18	The Moon No, set realistic goals.
19	The Sun - Yes
20	Judgement- Yes, a fresh start, a renewal
21	The World - Yes, completion of matter is soon to be reached.

Suit of Swords:

1	Yes
2	No - indecision
3	No
4	Yes - but have patience
5	Yes - but it won't be worth it all
6	Yes
7	No
8	No
9	No
10	No

Suit of Wands:

1	Yes
2	May be - indecision
3	May be - analyse the situation from a distant point, a waiting period
4	Yes
5	No - fight for your goal
6	Yes - success is yours
7	No - some efforts are required first
8	Yes & pretty soon
9	Yes - but not easily
10	No

Suit of Cups:

1	Yes
2	YES
3	YES
4	Yes - you will get what you are looking for
5	No- but you are not seeing what you have
6	Yes
7	May be
8	No, let it go
9	YES
10	YES

Suit of Pentacles:

1	Yes
2	Indecision
3	May be - show you have what is needed
4	No - let it go
5	NO, let it go
6	Yes
7	Not yet - waiting period
8	Not yet - work for it, waiting period
9	Yes
10	YES

I will do a few practice readings with it & post back how it works.

Success!

Will I find true love

Original spread here:

1) Will the querent ever find true love?

The Moon:

 Maybe. Caution is advised. Deception or self-delusion could be indicated. This card is not one of my favourite cards. There is an element of delusion, fear & strange passions in this card. I think either I'm too afraid of love or I'm just having an illusion of love, but may be no true love for me or when I have it, I'm just too scared to accept it.

This card looks like more like an unexpected situation that kind of bewilders you.

2) Will the attraction be instant or a slow-burning realization?

Seven of wands:

Wands is fire, & fire is passion & impulsive but this card shows a man struggling & working hard. so I believe it will be more of a struggle which explains the card 1.

3) What will this person be like physically?

The World

Lean, thin, complete, a balanced & complete package (hehe)

4) What will this person be like emotionally?

Ace of Cups

I see he is too emotional & it explains the card 1 & 2. If he is too emotional that will automatically make me confused & thus, the struggle.

5) Are there issues the querent needs to deal with that are delaying a meeting/relationship with this person?

Judgement

I need to start over. I need to let go, forgive & forget, leave the past behind & start a complete life over. I'm just about there.

6) Are there issues this person needs to deal with that are preventing a meeting/relationship?

King of Cups

He seems too emotional to me that is why so many emotional water cards coming up. This card also shows he needs to keep his emotional side in check.

7) When/where/how will the querent meet this person?

The Magician

Some place fun, creative & where there is everything available and you have to make something out of it. Some skill learning class or a place where you are the centre of attention.

I pulled an extra card for timing & I got Temperance which rules Sagittarius. We are about to enter Sagittarius period in about two months. Lets see what happens.

5/8 cards are major arcana which shows me things are out of my hands & there is destiny & major events happening in the regard. There is a complete absence of Pentacles & Swords which shows there is a need for logical thinking & practicality.