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Hi, can you help me interpreting my 'will he come back spread' please. 1- two cups reversed 2,3-high priestess reversed and nine of wands 4-the lovers reversed 5-seven of swords 6-queen of pentacles reversed 7-queen of cups 8-king of swords reversed 9-ace of cups And the key: wheel of fortune Help, pretty please

This is the question I got & I just want you to know that I do not use reversals. Its been one year but I'm not comfortable with reversals yet, but I will try to come up with an interpretation.

Here is the spread.

1. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go.

Two of Cups Reversed;

You have issues with accepting love, letting it happen, & opening yourself to love. This person in question can be a reason for this blockage & this is why you want them back, because you believe they will help you open yourself to love again. This card also indicates lack of commitment Make sure you do not have commitment phobia & that is why you want this person just because they are not commitment oriented & that feels safer in a way. May be he is just not available enough & you just want him to satisfy your ego. Not a very good reason to want them back if they are emotionally not available to you.

2. & 3. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card.

High Priestess Reversed & Nine of Wands

The High Priestess reversed tells that you have failed to listen to your heart and trust your gut in this relationship before & this has been happening because of you being too defensive about your feelings. It might be because you suffered a bad relationship/break up before this guy & you were just not willing to open yourself up to love & romance after that. You were just not listening to your heart. You needed to trust your gut & face your fears head on. I believe this explain why you want him back now, mainly because the feelings you had for him, you were not able to let them out or express yourself the first time around (Two of Cups Reversed).

4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do, you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off.

The Lovers Reversed

Again a fear of commitment or a fear of going the next step. It just indicates that you need to shift the path of your relationship by expressing your true feelings. A struggling relationship does not mean it has to end. You just need to find the willingness to express your personal truth and make the best decision for yourself and your relationship. Just make sure you know that you want this person for the right reasons.

5. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover.

Seven of Swords

STOP running away from your fears. This card can also be a warning that this person in question is not telling you all truth. There is always a hint of deception and trickery with this card.This is the obstacle, you have to be true to yourself first, & then you will be able to see it in other people too.

6. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – No need to elaborate.

Queen of Pentacles reversed

I believe there is a hidden desire in you to express your sensitivity & this is leading to this situation. The Queen can also be another woman involved in this situation, making you want him bad, someone who is not affecting you directly, but rather indirectly, a friend with successful relationship, someone who is successfully happy in a romantic relationship & it makes you realize you need to finish your business with your ex.

7. 8. & 9. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through, you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with.

Queen of Cups - King of Swords Reversed & Ace of Cups

If you try to push the door open, it will serve you good. It will give you an ability to realize your own needs & get in touch with your own sensitivity. He might be a bit off, or things might not go well, but ending with Ace of Cups, I think things will be great & both of you will experience a great deeper emotional connection again.

10. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle, then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door.

This card is all about cycles of relationships, changes & BIG changes you can expect. The only thing you can count on is that nothing is permanent. Things will soon change & these changes will be out of your hand. I think you just need to have some faith. The cycle of slowness in your romantic life is coming to an end. You have little control in the matter. on other hand, It’s important to note that the Wheel of Fortune Tarot card reminds us that there are ups and downs to every relationship. With its appearance in a love Tarot reading, there may be a need to take stock in your relationship. This is the time to ask yourself if your partner is worth the commitment. After all, every relationship will have its highs and lows. The true question you need to ask yourself is if you value your partner and relationship enough to work through the difficult times.

Hope it made some sense at all.

Blessings & light.

Quick Love Spread

Original Spread & author found here:

Q: His thoughts & situation regarding his relationship with me?

Him at Present:

Two of Cups:

the Two of Cups can indicate a balanced and harmonious relationship. It usually points towards a relationship that has mutual respect, attraction and romantic inclinations. I like this card appearing here because it means he is perceiving our relationship exactly the way I am. Peaceful, harmonious & smooth.


Challenge: What stops him from moving forward:
Temperance:
The card of patience, cooperation, balance and moderation. He is a slow & steady wins the race kind of guy & it explains his approach well. He believes in "time figures everything out for us" kind of approach & this is what is stopping him from moving forward. I also believe he is healing from a past relationship possibly which is why he has to stop & think before moving forward with me.


Issues from past influencing present:

Eight of Pentacles:
This card simply confirms that our business with each other was not really finished when he made a re-appearance in my life. He still had lessons to learn with me (& vice versa) & that is exactly why, I believe, we have come together again, to Two of Cups.


Future/outcome/Potential:
The Moon
He may be having conflicting feelings, I would love to have him face them *evil laugh*. This is my card for "facing the fears" & I can very well see what his worst fears are in relation to me & he will be facing them soon.

About him!

Recent Pluto retrograde transits brought some people from past, some people I was obsessed with, back into my life. I felt my intuition quite high today so I asked a few questions about a particular person:

1. Does he has feelings for me:

10 of Wands & Queen of Pentacles

Ten of Wands is my No card because there is too much going on in that person's mind. He is actually a very responsible kind of man & he has lots of responsibilities. This combination shows that he has responsibilities or burdens towards her family, mother in particular. Its like he has to work for bringing food on the table. No room for romance in this man's life apparently.

2. Will there be a long term relationship with this man:

The Lovers & Two of Cups

I have pulled these cards again for this man. I last time pulled these cards for what he wants. It looks like there is a reconciliation in store for us, & we will meet again, this time as lovers.

3. What stops him from approaching me:
Ten of Pentacles & Eight of Cups

The man in the Eight of Cups is leaving the beautiful scenery of Ten of Pentacles behind. It looks like he has had some financial security, a happy family time but now he is leaving on another quest which is why he is not contacting me. I'm not sure if he has recently started a new job or anything but I believe he is looking for something & when he has found it, he will return to me.

Will he come back, Part 2

Original spread here

This spread is becoming one of my favourites. This reading was done for a couple who have been out of each other's lives for about 7 yrs and have met again. S wanted to know if they can be back together or anything further than just being nice to each other can happen between them.

Will he come back spread

1. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go.

In this position we have Eight of Swords. Eight of Swords is my card for misunderstandings which need to be sorted out. This is the card which shows when one person needs to explain themselves or get some questions answered but it does not happen mainly because there are inhibitions. With this card here, I do not think she wants him because she loves him, but mainly because she has some unresolved issues with this guy.

2. & 3. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card.

We have Tower & Five of Swords in this position. Tower is a shock or an unforeseen event that destroyed everything,however, it did make one of them very happy. May be one of them was happy to destroy the other's life.  The Five of Swords is a card of betrayal, where one person wins the other person but its not worth it. This explains the card 1. There have been issues in the past which affected one of them badly (possibly her) & thus she needs to release herself from that. She needs to know why it all suddenly fell apart.

4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. 

Five of Wands is the card of competition & discussion. This card in this position shows that she might have to fight for his attention, there may be someone else in his life right now, & she will have to face some competition but this card is also about success after struggle. Challenges are ahead & the only way to him is through this.

5. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover.

Seven of Swords, there is evasive behavior on both sides. Thiings cannot simply improve till you stand up & fight for it as explained in the Handle position. This card is also about deception & lies. 

6. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – No need to elaborate.

Five of Pentacles, mainly financial losses or unfavourable situation. This person may be too pre occupied with his financial position right now. 

7. 8. & 9. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through, you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone.

Three of Cups - Queen of Swords & Two of Cups

There is a wonderful indication here that things will end in happiness & basically reconciliation between them, if she chooses to unlock the door. 

10. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle, then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door.

The Lovers
The ultimate card for love & romantic relationships. This card is also associated with choices, but I take it as passionate love, & not choices.

Overall we can see there have been some misunderstandings & some hurtful feelings & grudges from the past. This is the reason she needs a reconnection to release the grudge & talk things through. She can do this by discussing, brainstorming & confronting the situations however the challenge is the fight to let it be and move on silently. There is also a factor of financial problems effecting the situation. However, if she succeeds in opening the door, I see there is a better chance for them being friends & potentially lovers too. The key to unlocking the door is love, a choice & a decision. She chooses to take him back or not.

There are three 5's in the reading. These three cards show difficulties in connecting back. 

Week 15: Two of Cups

I have decided to pull a weekly card and then meditate on the card through the week and also see how it shows its energy in both my waking life and my dreams.

This card is of special importance this week. The very first reason is that few days ago I put the header picture on my blog, which has this very card in it. I put it there because this is my favourite card when I meditate for attracting love and abundance of support in my life. The second reason this card is important because this card appeared in my draw when I was in my last romantic relationship. It was very fulfilling and intense at very deep levels. Third, if you register on lotustarot.com site, they ask you if you would like to receive email from them which gives you meanings of a card. If you subscribe, you ocassionaly get an email with one card, randomly chosen and its meaning. The card are chosen at random because they hold a special message for you at that time. The card I received this week was, Yes, Two of Cups.

When I mediated on this card, I got forllowing meanings:

Union, Partnership, First meeting, Man making the move, Coming together.
Last night I saw that very man in the dream who I was in relationship with and pulled this card for us. Its strange but worth noting.

April 15, 2012


Last night again, I saw someone in my dream. This person is someone I don't know but he is usually in my dreams, helping me and supporting me. I remember calling him with names like "honey" and "darling" in the dream. This is when I say my dreams are becoming better than my realities.
The week for 2 of cups has been over today. This week I learnt a lot about adjustments, about seeing a new side of myself, which I have not yet worked completely with but we will try to live in the same body over next few months. I have started to learn basic things about putting the foundation for a life where I have to take responsibilities, make sacrifices, adjust and be kind and polite to others. I think I have taken my very first steps towards setting up a home and a family (just like the house in the background in this card). The task is hard, very hard, its actually making me bend down, but it seems like the universe really wants me to know that relationships require patience and sacrificing.