Saturday, May 19, 2012

14 cards Relationships Mirror Mirror Spread

Origin: Psychic Revelation ©


This reading is done for a couple who have been dating for a rather long time. The querent is worried why the relationship is not moving forward from there.



Cards:

How the querent sees herself:
Conflict and Defeat
Looks like some self-esteem issues which need addressing. She looks like she is in a depressing condition where she has lost hope to win the battle.

How the partner sees the querent.
Wisdom
The partner looks at her in a special way regarding her intellect and knowledge. This card is like The Hierophant in the traditional tarot decks. The partner looks up to her definitely.

How the querent sees their relationship.
Fulfilment of wishes
She seems to have lost of expectations from the relationship. This card is like the 9 of Cups from the Tarot, the wish card. She looks at the relationship very positively.

How the partner sees their relationship.
Throat Chakra & Obstacles and Challenge
When I draw a Chakra card I also draw a description card. The partner finds the relationship a challenge. This explains a lot about the situation why they are not moving forward.

What the querent wants.
Moving on
Definitely. She wants things to move, some action and some growth in the relationship.

What the partner wants.
Light
This card tells me that there are some matters which are not yet resolved for the partner. There are issues which he needs to deal with, things which need to come to surface before he can start taking an action. This explains why he looks at the relationship as a challenge.
The Light card is also archetype Sun. This card may also suggest that the partner does not want to lose his freedom yet.


What the querent needs.
Foundation and Achievement.
There is a difference between wanting something and a need for something. She wants to move on but what she actually needs in the relationship is the time to build a solid foundation before moving on.

What the partner needs.
Financial and Material Changes
Partner wants freedom from responsibilities, light to guide him, but he needs to make some serious material and financial changes before things can be resolved.

Influences acting in favor of the querent.
Shadow
The archetype Moon. This card tells us that there are things in hiding, things are not clear yet which is serving  good for the querent. This will give her time to evaluate and reassess her decisions.

Influences acting against the querent.
New beginnings
Not the right time to start afresh. Take this time to evaluate things. Dong anything new at this time is not recommended.

Influences acting in favor of the querent's partner.
Patience:
The slower things go, the better it is for him. Give him his time and he will come around.

Influences acting against the querent's partner.
Power
This is not a time to control the situation. Its rather a time to b patient and not forcing anything on your partner.


What the querent needs to do.
Fertility
Be nurturing, mother-like, grow as a person and let the relationship take its time.

What the partner needs to do.
Accelerated Motion:
Partner definitely needs to pace up a little. He needs to make some changes and he has time on his hand too, but this should not slow him down.

In this reading we have 7 majors (50%) cards which suggest some major changes at each partner's own side are required.

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