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Hi, can you help me interpreting my 'will he come back spread' please. 1- two cups reversed 2,3-high priestess reversed and nine of wands 4-the lovers reversed 5-seven of swords 6-queen of pentacles reversed 7-queen of cups 8-king of swords reversed 9-ace of cups And the key: wheel of fortune Help, pretty please

This is the question I got & I just want you to know that I do not use reversals. Its been one year but I'm not comfortable with reversals yet, but I will try to come up with an interpretation.

Here is the spread.

1. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go.

Two of Cups Reversed;

You have issues with accepting love, letting it happen, & opening yourself to love. This person in question can be a reason for this blockage & this is why you want them back, because you believe they will help you open yourself to love again. This card also indicates lack of commitment Make sure you do not have commitment phobia & that is why you want this person just because they are not commitment oriented & that feels safer in a way. May be he is just not available enough & you just want him to satisfy your ego. Not a very good reason to want them back if they are emotionally not available to you.

2. & 3. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card.

High Priestess Reversed & Nine of Wands

The High Priestess reversed tells that you have failed to listen to your heart and trust your gut in this relationship before & this has been happening because of you being too defensive about your feelings. It might be because you suffered a bad relationship/break up before this guy & you were just not willing to open yourself up to love & romance after that. You were just not listening to your heart. You needed to trust your gut & face your fears head on. I believe this explain why you want him back now, mainly because the feelings you had for him, you were not able to let them out or express yourself the first time around (Two of Cups Reversed).

4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do, you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off.

The Lovers Reversed

Again a fear of commitment or a fear of going the next step. It just indicates that you need to shift the path of your relationship by expressing your true feelings. A struggling relationship does not mean it has to end. You just need to find the willingness to express your personal truth and make the best decision for yourself and your relationship. Just make sure you know that you want this person for the right reasons.

5. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover.

Seven of Swords

STOP running away from your fears. This card can also be a warning that this person in question is not telling you all truth. There is always a hint of deception and trickery with this card.This is the obstacle, you have to be true to yourself first, & then you will be able to see it in other people too.

6. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – No need to elaborate.

Queen of Pentacles reversed

I believe there is a hidden desire in you to express your sensitivity & this is leading to this situation. The Queen can also be another woman involved in this situation, making you want him bad, someone who is not affecting you directly, but rather indirectly, a friend with successful relationship, someone who is successfully happy in a romantic relationship & it makes you realize you need to finish your business with your ex.

7. 8. & 9. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through, you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with.

Queen of Cups - King of Swords Reversed & Ace of Cups

If you try to push the door open, it will serve you good. It will give you an ability to realize your own needs & get in touch with your own sensitivity. He might be a bit off, or things might not go well, but ending with Ace of Cups, I think things will be great & both of you will experience a great deeper emotional connection again.

10. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle, then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door.

This card is all about cycles of relationships, changes & BIG changes you can expect. The only thing you can count on is that nothing is permanent. Things will soon change & these changes will be out of your hand. I think you just need to have some faith. The cycle of slowness in your romantic life is coming to an end. You have little control in the matter. on other hand, It’s important to note that the Wheel of Fortune Tarot card reminds us that there are ups and downs to every relationship. With its appearance in a love Tarot reading, there may be a need to take stock in your relationship. This is the time to ask yourself if your partner is worth the commitment. After all, every relationship will have its highs and lows. The true question you need to ask yourself is if you value your partner and relationship enough to work through the difficult times.

Hope it made some sense at all.

Blessings & light.

Quick One card reading

Q: What should S do in order to make J desire her?

A: Six of Cups

Six of Cups Radiant Rider Waite Deck

The most interesting bit is that S & J were high school lovers, who have come across each other after 8 years now. They have felt an instant attraction towards each other & this time the connection is different than before.

1. Looking at the picture,we can see the feeling of love, genorosity & affection oozing. There are two kids in the picture & the card somehow reminds me of the Two of Cups, only with children this time. So forming a child-like affection attitude, generous & pure, will help her make him desire her.
2. Child-like purity will make him feel nostalgic, like old times, & this nostalgia will remind him of his feelings for her
3. Children are pure, optimistic & fun. These qualities will attract him towards her.
4. Reminding him of old things, talking about his childhood stuff, may be even discussing kids will help her.
5. This one card reading has helped me discover a lot about the priorities this guy has *grin* and one card, sometimes is more than enough.

Quick Love Spread

Original Spread & author found here:

Q: His thoughts & situation regarding his relationship with me?

Him at Present:

Two of Cups:

the Two of Cups can indicate a balanced and harmonious relationship. It usually points towards a relationship that has mutual respect, attraction and romantic inclinations. I like this card appearing here because it means he is perceiving our relationship exactly the way I am. Peaceful, harmonious & smooth.


Challenge: What stops him from moving forward:
Temperance:
The card of patience, cooperation, balance and moderation. He is a slow & steady wins the race kind of guy & it explains his approach well. He believes in "time figures everything out for us" kind of approach & this is what is stopping him from moving forward. I also believe he is healing from a past relationship possibly which is why he has to stop & think before moving forward with me.


Issues from past influencing present:

Eight of Pentacles:
This card simply confirms that our business with each other was not really finished when he made a re-appearance in my life. He still had lessons to learn with me (& vice versa) & that is exactly why, I believe, we have come together again, to Two of Cups.


Future/outcome/Potential:
The Moon
He may be having conflicting feelings, I would love to have him face them *evil laugh*. This is my card for "facing the fears" & I can very well see what his worst fears are in relation to me & he will be facing them soon.

Relationship happiness Spread by Lisa

original spread & author's blog here

1)What you and your partner are thinking about each other Ace of wands & Seven of wands

I think about him as a new adventure, this is true because when I sent him my first message I actually was looking to rekindle the old spark. He,to me, is my new beginning and that too a fiery one.

Him on other hand, thinks of me as someone courageous and he actually told me the same too. I actually went ahead & confronted him to solve the tension between us so he is kind of impressed with my directness.

2)What you and your partner are saying to each other (how you communicate)
 Two of wands & Death

I basically tell him all the time to have fun with life, keep a balance (number two) & analyse if whatever he is working hard for is worth it.
He on the other hand tells me his stories of why he is the way he is. He is a Capricorn & a workaholic. For him life is serious business & he is miserable sometimes. That is why these two cards explain it very well.

Alternatively, I weigh my words, I evaluate my words before I tell him anything & he is trying to transform the way he has been & is now communicating with me.

3) What you and your partner are doing to each other (how you treat each other)
Knight of Wands & Lovers
I treat him with passion, adventure & fiery nature, because I'm an Aries. He treats me like someone he can share things with.

4)Advice on how to create more harmony between what you think, say and do.
 Four of Cups & Page of Cups

These cards tell me , being Cups, that we need to work on our sensitivity & emotions, since both of us are Aries & Capricorn respectively, emotions are not really our thing.
I have to be more self-absorbed & I need to see whats around. For me this card is about "help will come" so I have to be more considerate of what I have instead of what I want to have. About him he has to learn about his emotional & sensitive side.

5)Current happiness potential
Ten of Pentacles
This card is all about happiness, completeness, family, riches, health, wealth & a stage where things are all set in order to start a new cycle. We have a potential to reach our true happiness & complete this cycle if we both pay attention to our emotional needs.

Tarotscope for October2012

Last month's successful tarotscope encourages me to have another go!

Love & Romance:

Ending & new beginning + Growth & abundance

Last month I had Ten of Swords with Seven of Cups & that was true. This month I expect I will move on from my day dreaming of last month towards more stable growth & also abundance. Empress is the card I just pulled for what was coming up next in my life. Empress is also a motherly influence in your life and in terms of romance it means growth, increase, abundance. Good sign for October



Home & Family:

Being Considerate + Family Happiness

This card tells me that after some time of factoring others into equation, I will see some family happiness & quality time at home. I'm very much looking forward to this. Ten of Cups in this position is great.

Work & Finances:


Mystery + Rest = Calm down

This clearly tells me there is still much time for me to stand back & relax before I can actually find some work. Its taking longer than I thought.

Generally: I see good times at home & in terms of romance a spiritual growth (no man in cards) so peace out!